5 comments on “The Great Myth of Social Sharing Buttons

  1. Oh my goodness Paul, my comment might end up being a mini-post by the time I’m finished.

    Okay, where to start. Your blogs should be used for building relationships with your readers. In order to accomplish this you should openly share other people’s content. BUT, if you are sharing it on Twitter and their Twitter ID is not properly set up in their tweet buttons then they’ll have no idea that you shared their posts. Because of that, they may never end up giving you the time of day.

    Oh sure, our content should be enough to continue bringing people back to our blogs time and time again but if you haven’t gone out of your way to connect with your readers through some other means then there are millions of blogs for them to chose from and so many hours in the day.

    I have no problem whatsoever with people adding to the tweet or post with what they’d like to share but if I have no idea that you shared it then that means you could care less about my own opinion.

    Whoever shares my posts through any network, I personally thank then for it. Why? Because I appreciate the fact that they took the time to stop by my blog and leave their opinions. You should too! You will really start building up a great loyal fan base if you do that but by ignoring these share buttons at the bottom of the posts, you’re really just hurting yourself in the long run. I always appreciate people sharing my posts but I’d love it more if I knew who was doing that.

    I think I’ll stop for now. Thank you for including me in your post though, it’s greatly appreciated. Hope you’ll stop back by and leave a comment. I love the interaction and having an opportunity to read your own views.

    Enjoy your weekend Paul.

    ~Adrienne

    • I think you make some very valid points, Adrienne, that I totally agree with. ‘Tagging’ someone when you tweet a link is, to me, common sense. This post, for instance, at the time of me writing this has 32 shares (according to the buttons), 19 of which are tweets. I’m probably aware of about a dozen of those tweets. So I cannot connect with or thank the other people who shared.

      The difference, I think, between you and I is that I do the sharing process manually. If I read a post I like, I’ll copy the URL and paste it into Buffer or Hootsuite or wherever, and I’ll then manually check the author’s Twitter username (normally alongside the post) and add that. You, I believe, rely on the Twitter share button. They achieve the same thing at the end of the day.

      Thanks very much for dropping by – really appreciate you taking the time to read, comment and share!

      • I just wanted to respond Paul to your comment of manually sharing the content.

        Most people don’t have the time to “manually” share anything. I wish all we had to ever do is visit other blogs and just comment. Because we do have other things to do we only have so much time devoted to reading posts, commenting and sharing.

        If people don’t make this easy for us, the majority of people will not go to the trouble to manually sharing anything.

  2. LOL, I share if I like and don’t care about the number, but I agree with you. People look at it as a validation number. It’s not right, but it is the truth.

    Another thought, too. Why wouldn’t you put buttons up if it means that only 1/3 will use them. It’s like not offering an RSS feed because only 2% still use them.

    • OK, Mr Glass Half Full! :) You’re dead right, of course, Geoff. To ignore the 35% would be folly, although I’m not actually suggesting that people ditch the buttons. I haven’t and wouldn’t. I was/am more interested in whether they actually add any value.

      Is that figure of 2% correct? Not heard/seen anything on RSS use for a while.

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